Endless Vacation Mindset: Living Slow in a Fast World

Have you ever noticed that you and I live for weekends, public holidays, or that one long-awaited annual vacation? We drag ourselves through Monday to Friday. We merely catch our breath on the weekend, only to do it all over again. But hear me out. What if life itself could feel like a vacation? And no, you don’t have to be traveling all the time. You can choose how to live every single day. That’s the very heart of the Endless Vacation Mindset. You slow down, find meaning in small moments, and bring that vacation energy into daily life. And you do so even in a world that never, ever stops rushing.

Why are we usually stuck in Fast-Forward?

We are living in a time that glorifies busyness. Long working hours – wow, back-to-back meetings – awesome, packed schedules – great, and endless deadlines – that’s the norm! All these are being worn like badges of honor. This is the very reason life has become mechanical. We wake up, commute, work, eat, sleep, and repeat. Even our so-called breaks are rushed. We have lunch at the desk, quick scrolls through social media, or weekends filled with errands.

And here’s the catch: this pace leaves us drained, disconnected, and often craving escapes. That’s the reason why vacations feel magical. They’re those rare times we give ourselves permission to slow down, breathe, and sometimes live intentionally.  Good news! We don’t need to wait for an annual holiday to feel that way. We all can weave that sense of presence and joy into our everyday lives.

So, what is this Endless Vacation Mindset?

The Endless Vacation Mindset is about bringing the qualities of vacation into your daily rhythm. You practice ease, presence, curiosity, and connection as a daily routine.  You don’t have to quit your job or shirk responsibilities. All you have to do is shift how you approach life.

Recall your last vacation. What did you do? You:

• Woke up curious, not rushed.
• Savoured your meals, didn’t gulp them down.
• Explored, even if it’s just meant to walk on a new lane or visit a café.
• Disconnected from work and reconnected with yourself.
• Celebrated small joys like sunsets and long walks.

This mindset simply asks: why save this version of you just for two weeks a year? Why are you not carrying it with you every single day?

Read more about how to embrace this mindset here.

How I made a Shift to Slow Living?

For over twenty years, I lived the very same fast-forward life in Pune. My days were blurred with endless to-do lists, corporate targets, and traffic jams. On paper, it looked something like success. But deep within, it felt like burnout. I was functioning, but I wondered if I was really living.

I made a bold decision to move from Pune to Dehradun. And that is when I began to understand what slow living actually means. Suddenly, mornings were about birdsong instead of honking horns. I could sip my coffee quietly while watching mist roll over the hills and squirrels running around in the trees in the courtyard. Conversations with random folks felt more nourishing than a hundred boardroom meetings. Simple everyday routines like buying vegetables, walking down leafy lanes, and watching the sky change color at dusk became experiences to cherish.

It was then that the Endless Vacation Mindset stopped being an idea. It had become my way of life.

How can you practice the Endless Vacation Mindset?

You don’t have to move cities like I did. You can embrace this mindset right from where you:

1. Can begin with small pauses: Deliberately bring in small pauses in your day. You could begin with a ten-minute morning walk or a few minutes of mindful breathing, or just sitting quietly with your morning cuppa.
2. Savor your Meals: Keep the phone away while eating. That will put away distractions. Taste your food. Begin to notice its texture, and practice moments of gratitude during meals.
3. Can explore: You can simply begin with a visit to a nearby park, or a trail, or maybe the neighbourhood café you’ve never been to. 
4. Should disconnect: Keep your phone away for some time. Make the most of this time by talking to your family, journaling, or simply sitting in silence.
5. Must celebrate the Ordinary: Step out to watch the sunset or just water your plants. Learn to enjoy the smell of rain. All these are small joys that you can add up.

More resources on this mindset –

How to treat every day like vacation?

How would your life change if you thought of it as a vacation?

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How Some Conversations Changed My Perspective?

In Dehradun, I talked to random people. I found wisdom in the simplest interactions. A tea-seller in Rajpur once told me, “Yahan zindagi bhaagti nahi hai, bas chalti hai. Aur wahi kaafi hai.” (Here, life doesn’t run. It just walks. And that’s enough.) Simple words yet so profound. These words hit me harder than any management book ever did.

Another day, I met a retired army officer on a heritage walk who said moving here gave him back his health and peace after years of chaos. These weren’t philosophical discourses. They were just random, everyday conversations. But they reminded me that slowing down isn’t just about relaxation. It is about restoration.

What are The Challenges of Slowing Down?

Let me be honest here. Living slowly in a world that is constantly running isn’t easy. You’ll feel the pull. You may want to go back to rushing. People might not understand the choices you have made. You may even feel guilty. The feeling of not being “productive enough” may creep in. 

But here’s a truth bomb: productivity is not the same as your purpose. When you slow down, you’re not falling behind. You’re only choosing to align with what truly matters to you.

I still have moments when the old patterns creep back. I sometimes do feel the urge to check emails late at night. At times, I want to cram too much into a day. But then I step outside, take in the sight of the mountains, and remind myself: this is why I chose this life. You can’t reset life in an instant. It is a longish process of unlearning and relearning.

Now, why does This Mindset really matter?

The Endless Vacation Mindset, as the name suggests, is a mindset. It is more than a lifestyle choice. It is a quiet rebellion against the culture of constant hustle. The mindset says your life isn’t something to be endured between vacations. Your life is actually meant to be lived fully, right here, right now.

When you begin to live with this mindset, you:

• Build relationships that are stronger and more present.
• See the stress vanish. 
• Feel healthier.
• Start liking the ordinary.
• Wake up full of energy for the day ahead.

The mindset is not about having “the” perfect life. It is all about having a “great” present.

What is the takeaway? 

Your day-to-day life doesn’t have to be a countdown to your next holiday. Start embracing the Endless Vacation Mindset, and every day will become a chance to pause, breathe, and live with joy.

You need to ask yourself: What is that one small way I can live today as if I’m already on vacation? You can start with small things as suggested above. The rest will follow.

That is the very spirit I live by now. And that is the very essence of my retreats. I like creating spaces where people can rediscover what it feels like to live, not just survive. In the end, the real vacation isn’t about where you go. It’s about how you choose to live wherever you are. So make a simple choice by following the

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